Wednesday, June 16, 2010

How to combat "STRESS"? 10 effective ways!

1."Never strive to attain the unattainable."
- The practice endows nothing but "STRESS" which further bogs down your efficiency!

2."Never say YES to alcohol."
-"Alcohol is one of the most effective stress busters."
BULLSHIT!
Alcohol serves no purpose.It aggravates your "stress" nonetheless. "HEALTH HAZARDS" are other freebies that alcohol often brings with it!

3."Unnecessary competition.........EVADE,EVADE,EVADE!"
-This is one of the precursors of stress. The temperament "Oh Gosh, he/she has it, I too need to have it" shall lead you nowhere.

4."Try appreciating others as much as you can."
- A heart-felt appreciation is a genuine thing. I am NOT encouraging sycophancy. Flattery ----> a BIG NO-NO! Be genuinely appreciative.If you feel someone has done a commendable job,then go forth & pat his back :)

5. "Nothing kills stress better than a cat purring on your lap or a dog wagging it's tail & licking your face"
- If you aren't zoophobic,then try snuggling a kitten or a pup.........Cuts stress effectively!

6."Try confiding in someone."
-Share your angst with someone who you rely on.It might be a piece of paper too. Scribble your exasperation & tear it asunder , it will surely help you feel good since it's a cathartic practice.
If you have a confidante in your life, then nothing can be better than that.

7."Music or a book or a movie of your choice"
-It would just be hackneyed if I start listing down the positive effects of Music. Avoid listening to a cacophonous number. A soft rhapsody with meaningful lyrics should be preferred.

8."Never pay heed to criticisms meant to intimidate you."
-People who criticize in order to dampen your spirit are BIG TIME LOSERS themselves. Michael Flatley had once rightly said :- " Whenever I hear, "It can't be done," I know I'm close to success."

9."Try meditating."
- Simple breath regulating exercises like Pranayam serve the purpose. Here,I would suggest you all a simple exercise that will take 2-3 minutes.
1. Sit on the ground or on a chair & keep your spine straight.
2. Breathe in & fill your lungs with air, so that your chest expands & your stomach contracts.
3. Hold your breath for a second or two.
4. Now exhale & utter "AUM". Be soft & audible. "Aaaauuuuuuummmmmm" . The exhaled air carries out with it all your anxieties, your worries & your qualms.

10. " Sleep/ gorge on your favorite dessert."


Finally,I would say "Life is bland without worries." Had life been plain & smooth, the spirit to live it would have died. "A status-quo life is the least desirable one" in fact, it's worthless!

"Stress" is just a transient thing,face it with a smiling face,never let it overpower you & that's the MANTRA of eternal happiness.

10 comments:

  1. Nice post.
    Sometimes excessive pressure of study results into stress. I will try the meditation technique which you have suggested here.
    Thanks for the information. Keep writing. Following you.
    Arnav

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  2. i liked the 10th point
    on this topic our thinking differs quite a bit :P
    but overall a nice post

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  3. Many would like the 10th point! :D
    Thanks! :):)

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  4. I believe point no. 8 is the most important.

    For me, music is the best stress reliever. Watching Naruto and Bleach comes a close second.. :)

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  5. Good post! Meditation really helps.
    One more point which i would say is have a hearty laugh and keep smiling always.
    About smile: "You have to fake it before you make it"

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  6. Well said! :):)
    Thanks Aphron for stopping by! :):)

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  7. Points taken except for the 5th one which certainly looks scary to me.. :)

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  8. :D,yes that point isn't meant for zoophobics! :)

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